It is obvious that many of the women in the society need to be reoriented. They need to be given some lessons that will change their way of thoughts and perspectives about life.
Basically, young ladies have to be well groomed so that their attitudes to life and relationships will change. The rate at which women force themselves on men is alarming. Many women give a lot in order for their relationships to work out.
Women endure all sorts of scorns and hardships because they do not want to be lonely; they literally beg the men to stay with them and worship them in their relationships. Now do not get it twisted here; no one is asking you to throw tantrums and find unnecessary reasons to break up with the man in your life.
However, relationship is not a one-way-traffic affair, you cannot be the sole distributor, retailer and buyer at the same time. There has to be some kind of flow, a synergy; you both have to contribute your own quota in order to make things work.
If you are the only one trying to make the relationship work, then what will happen in marriage? One of the reasons people get frustrated in marriages is when their partners do not contribute a dime.
If he is not making any effort in that relationship, then you need to dump him fast. Marriage is a big deal and you have to make up your mind to help the society by not increasing the increased rate of divorce in the society.
If he does these things then you need to dump him fast:
1. When he does not care about you
If you basically run after him all day the you have not reached your bus stop when it comes to being with the right person.
Love should not be this hard really, if the only time you cross his mind is when he sees your missed calls, then you need to dump him fast. If you endure his negligence in a relationship, how much of this can you put up with in marriage?
2. When he does not remember anything you tell him
If you are with a man that constantly asks you questions he has asked you before, then you need to ask yourself if he ever listens to you. This means that he is not interested in you and only asks those questions to keep the conversation going.
How long do you want to stay in that relationship since everything is forced? We can bet that you even begged him to introduce you to his sisters or family members.
3. When he does not hang out with you
Do not let anyone trick you into believing things will change with time; do not get trapped in a loveless marriage because you think he will change.
If you have to beg and croon before he takes you out on dates, then you need to have a serious discussion with him. No matter how busy he claims to be, he should not form the habit of cancelling and bailing out on you at the last minute.
If you do not meet his friends how do you want to know the skeletons in his cupboard? Some friends cover up for their buddy though, so you have to watch out on that one.
4. If he is a different person when he is with your folks
You have to be careful so as not to fall into the hands of those guys that pretend. When he is with you, he is someone else.
Someone you have to please every now and then. But when you are out with family and friends, he becomes the ideal man who is always trying to please you.
Be with a man who is straight; not some two-faced-man who will make your family members fall in love with him while you endure torture while alone with him.
5. If he becomes a beast when he is temperamental
You have to be smart and think rationally when with a man who is temperamental. Do not let emotions cloud your sanity; learn to read the signs and act wisely when you become unsure of his attitude.
If your boyfriend terrifies you when he is mad at you, then there is the likelihood that he will beat you up someday. Say no to domestic violence and dump him fast the moment he pushes you in anger.
Semenitari, who said that the Commission was determined to create entrepreneurs from the Niger Delta region, added that the NDDC/Konga.Com partnership is one of the avenues towards achieving the goal.
